
WELCOME TO PALOF'S PROGRESS
"For everyone has something of his own to contribute to the truth...."
Aristotle
Welcome! Palof's Progress is a nonfiction blog of family tales, humor, reviews, and social commentary. As the saying goes, I'm a work in progress. My blog entries show my progress (or lack of it) trying to understand my life and the world that I live in. The child in the photo, taking his first steps, is now an old man, but I'm still trying to move forward.
Oscar nominated films for best picture, 2024
It’s Oscar time, and, as usual, I’m ranking the ten films nominated for best picture. My rationale for this exercise is a teacher’s...
The Ashtray: A True Story
Illustration by Thomas E. A. Palof My father grew up poor and malnourished. He was the oldest child of Slovak immigrants, transplanted...
My Wedding Tale
One the best choices I have made in recent years is the decision to regularly see a therapist. When the crazy begins to build up in me,...
The Good-Time Charlie
Painting by my uncle, George Palof. I believe the subject is my grandfather, John Palof My maternal and paternal grandfathers were very...
Oscars 2023
This weekend brings the Daylight Savings Time change when we turn our clocks ahead and lose an hour. Many people will feel that they are...
My Angry Mob Experience
Recently, on the news, I’ve been watching them -- the leaders of the January 6th insurrection making their way through the court system...
The House on West 56th Street
As a kid, I felt closest to my mom’s side of the family, and every summer brought the eager anticipation of spending a week at my...
The Trip to Deer Mountain
When we arrived out west in the mid 1970s, we had little in the way of furniture, so when Marcia’s boss, Jan, said that she had bought a...
Making the Best of Things: Coping with a Mysterious Illness
A few years back, I was looking through some old family photos, back when that meant prints rather than pictures on a screen, when I was...
Darkening Days: Grieving
This year will mark my fiftieth wedding anniversary. I can’t help but think of my parents because beside my bed is a photo of them...
Murder City: Detroit, 1974-1975
Nineteen seventy-four was a record year for Detroit. With 715 killings, the city led the nation in homicides, earning it the designation...
My Holy Family: Fear and Foreboding in Elementary School
The oldest child of Paul Palof and Josephine Palof, I turned five in the summer of 1955. Judging by my parents’ attitude toward me, I...
Lillie's Valley: In Search of the Good Life - Part 3 of 3
There are few experiences more delightful in life than departing Edmonds, Washington, on the ferry with the weather mild, the ferry...
Lillie's Valley: In Search of the Good Life - Part 2 of 3
“We weren’t broke!” Marcia objects to how I ended Part One. “We just needed to get used to being paid only once a month. Remember we had...
Lillie's Valley: In Search of the Good Life - Part 1 of 3
In the summer of 1975, I painted the word “Horace” on the side of our car. We named our vehicle after Horace Greeley because he had...
The Smile Before the Slap: The Oscars Fracas
At risk of appearing to beat a dead horse, I will add my commentary to what has already been said about the Will Smith-Chris Rock...
Neighborhood Nemesis: I stand up to the bully
My parents lived on a main thoroughfare – Ridge Road—between two side streets -- Hi View Drive and Julia Drive. Julia at that...
Sort of like Lord of the Flies: My High School Gym Class
Starting in public high school in 1964, after the sheltered environment of a Catholic middle school, was difficult for me for many...
Prelude to Valentine Day: A Look at a Lesser-Known Classic of Romantic Literature
Having taught college students for four decades, I can tell you that getting them to read the so-called literary classics is not an easy...




















